22 THINGS GUYS DO THAT GIRLS ABSOLUTELY HATE!

22 THINGS GUYS DO THAT GIRLS ABSOLUTELY HATE!
What's up Gentlemen?  I'm Emmanuel from Teaching Men Everything and welcome to another blog post. Ever wondered why you don't have many female friends, you don't last long in relationships or girls just don't like you at all? Its probably because you've said, done or you didn't do something to them to make just loathe you.

Guys, whether we'd like to agree to this or not, we are far from perfect. At a point in our lives, we've driven the women in our lives crazy over things we might not even see as a big deal. Yeah, we've all been there, but in this post, I'll share with you a few things you do knowingly and unknowingly so you can avoid being "that guy". This will be a two-part post, so watch out for the second part.

Whether you're here to improve your life, impress your girlfriend or just understand women better, below are 22 THINGS THAT WOMEN ABSOLUTELY HATE ABOUT MEN, AND HOW TO AVOID THEM. If that tickles your fancy, vamonos.

1. Narcissism: In this present age and time, being narcissistic is hated by everyone, especially women. Whether they are ready to accept it or not, women love attention. It doesn't matter if she liked you so much that she asked you out herself, talking about yourself throughout the date and paying no attention what-so-ever to her will turn her off instantly. To avoid this, let the conversation go back and forth between the two of you (with her doing more of the talking), and you're good to go.

2. Laziness: Yeah, I get it, sitting at home playing FIFA and COD all day is fire, but doing that every day, while your girl is going to work and earning a living, is just lazy. Get up, find something to do, and then reward yourself with COD at the end of the day.

3. Having No Goal: Going round in circles and having no plan and direction for four life isn't just lazy, it's DISGUSTING. If you are in the middle of a conversation and she asks you where you see yourself in 10 years and your reply is "I'll just go where life leads", you shouldn't even be going on dates. Get your life together, set a goal, work towards it and achieve it. There is nothing sexier than a man that has the sense of direction.

4. Being too insecure: Now this, this is just childish. Getting in your feelings about every statement made towards you, not being able to take a joke, crying or getting angry when someone teases you, is a huge turn-off. She will be too cautious when telling you anything so as to not piss you off. You won't be a fun person to be with. Grow up!

5. Lying: This has to be the biggest turn-off on the face of the earth. Just say the truth, it honestly isn't that hard. Whether you think it is for her protection, she cannot handle it or she is going to end things with you, trust me, it's better to tell her now than for her to find out herself after already lying to her. Just say the truth; except she asks you if she has gotten fat, in that case, just say no always, lol.

6. Being Too Clingy: I understand, you are in love with her, you want to be with her 24/7 and when she's not around, you want to be on the phone with her always. As cute as this is, this is a turnoff. Yes, she likes you, but she needs some time away from you, to be by herself, hang with her friends and just do her thing, you also need your personal space to be by yourself, hang with your guys, and do your thing. This will even make your relationship stronger.

7. Not Caring at all: This is the direct opposite of being too clingy. Going weeks without talking to her or finding out how she has been, is another turnoff. If that continues, it kills the feelings she has or you, and if at that time, she meets a guy who cares to find out she is, she gone bro. Take some time from your busy schedule to check up on her and find out how she is doing.

8. Over-jealousy: Don't get me wrong, everybody likes when their significant other is acting a little jealous when they see someone checking you out, but that is totally different from checking her chats all the time, calling her every five minutes to monitor where she is and even accusing her of cheating. Trust the fact that she loves you, and you'll be ok.

9. Not listening: I'm about to break a table that even I am on. This is one thing that absolutely every woman hates, unfortunately, it is one of the things that all guys do unconsciously. It is very easy to just zone out in the middle of a conversation and come back to your senses when she asks you if you're listening. The painful thing is, what you are thinking of is nowhere as important as what she is telling you. For the sake of your relationship or friendship you both share, try your very best to listen to what she is saying and yes, I'm also talking to myself.

10. Looking at your phone during a conversation: I'm very sure that the rule that states that "all phones must be put on airplane mode during a date or an important meeting"  made by a heart-broken man who wants us to learn from his mistakes. When you are on a date, switch off your phone and put it in your pocket until the date is over. Dates are times made for you to connect physically and emotionally with a potential partner, and looking down at your phone destroys that motive immediately. It shows that "you would rather be with the person you are chatting with than be on that date" without saying a word. It is very disrespectful.  

That’s all for the first part of this post, look out for the second.

That's it from me for now, see you next time.
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