22 THINGS GUYS DO THAT GIRLS ABSOLUTELY HATE- Part 2
22 THINGS GUYS DO THAT GIRLS ABSOLUTELY HATE- Part 2
What's up Gentlemen? I'm Emmanuel from Teaching Men Everything and welcome to another blog post.
Before I start, I'd like to appreciate you all for the views on the first part of this post. In just two days, it became my second most-viewed post ever. The support has been crazy, and I'll like to thank every one of you for the views, shares and likes, it means a lot to me and it is my motivation pushing me to continue writing. With all that being said, let us continue with the blog post.
In the last post, I showed you guys 10 things you may be doing that is making you look like "that guy" in the eyes of the ladies. This post will be a continuation of that one, addressing the remaining 12. If that tickles your fancy, vamonos.
11. Looking anywhere but her eyes throughout the conversation: This may pass off to her as you trying to lie and not being trustworthy. Yeah, I understand, that's not your intention and you are only doing that because you cannot just maintain eye contact. If this is you, don't worry, I've sent the TME ambulance to your rescue. Because I am your social media big brother and I'm always thinking of you, click here, and you'll find tips on "HOW TO BUILD AND MAINTAIN A STRONG EYE CONTACT". So, click the blue text above, leave this post, read that post, leave a like and a comment, then come back here, I'll be waiting for you.
12. Not being able to express your feelings: Personally, I am not the type of person to just start talking about my feelings and pouring my problems and thoughts out unto another person, gender regardless, it makes me feel vulnerable and that is a feeling I don't like. Instead, I tend to bottle things up and distract myself from that particular thing, so I am not about to tell you to practice what I don't do. But I will say this; opening up SOMETIMES feels uplifting and free and I think that is why women talk about feelings all the time. If you are like me, you need to try it at least once with the women in your life. Send me an E-mail or DM if you tried it and whether or not it worked.
13. Inconsistency: Let me sight an example. If you are the relationship type and you have a partner, imagine she gives you all the love in the world when you two are alone, but then when you are with her friends, she behaves as if you don't exist or she is rude to you in front of all her friends. Imagine how you'd feel. Now If you feel like shit, imagine how she feels when you are as inconsistent and as untrue as that.
14. Not remembering important dates: If there is one thing every guy has in common, it's that we are very bad at remembering Names and Dates. So, recently, I put myself in women's shoes and I understood two major things; I understood why they feel bad anytime we forget their names or special days that they want us to remember, I also found out that I can't walk in high heels. I know, I'm also shocked. But on a serious note, if you need help remembering names, say it at the back of sentences and questions directed towards her, and if you need help remembering dates, set it as a notification on your phone's calendar.
15. Not noticing something new: In a lady's mind, there is nothing as annoying as getting your hair done or doing something for your man and him not noticing at all. Gentlemen, try your possible best to be on the look-out and notice changes on her or around you.
16. Noticing and not being appreciative: We've established the fact that it's bad enough that you didn't notice, it is even worse if you actually noticed and you did not appreciate it. At this point, it's not just women; if someone does something good for or to you, it's basic etiquette to be appreciative. Not being appreciative reduces the enthusiasm the person had when doing the did.
17. Being called "BRO": Friendly experiment: When you are talking to your sister or girlfriend, add "BRO" before or behind a sentence and see how she'd react. That's all.
18. Saying Periods are "Disgusting": You have to understand one thing. No woman asked for period. Don't you think they know that it's not the prettiest sight when blood from their body stains the sheets and their dresses? They know, and calling it out does not make things any better. If your girl stains the sheets with blood, wait till she goes to the toilet, change the sheets, wash the old ones, and treat her like a queen for the rest of her period. NOTE: Do not tell her she stained the bed, it's just rude.
19. Being disrespectful to Family in her presence: Being disrespectful to family in her presence, regardless of if it's hers or yours, it gives the motive that you are not a man and that you will not have respect for your future family if you get married.
20. Ungroomed Nails and Hair: No matter how many times this is said, it still feels unheard. This is actually now a criterion when girls check you out. Just last week, I was running some errands and I saw a drop-dead gorgeous girl, I'm not even joking right now, she looked at me, looked down at my toes, looked back at my face and smiled (the rest is history). The point is, no matter how good-looking your Mother told you you are, ungroomed hair and dirty nails are turnoffs for girls. Go to the Men's salon, get a haircut, get a manicure kit and take care of that arse-smelling dunghill.
21. Overall poor hygiene: Men are known to have thick sweat and strong body odour, so you having poor hygiene does not even help matters. You stink, shower. your mouth stinks, brush. It's actually not that hard.
22. Not knowing how to have fun: In these times that we are in, all we need are positive and fun people. We have so many problems in this world, so much that people who aren't fun to be with don't even have space. Everyone is looking for someone to lift their spirits, so you will be valuable and highly treasured if you are a positive person who knows how to brighten someone's day.
If you made it to the end, you are already a better person. It does not matter if you are a relationship person or not, these are just tips and points for you to implement in your life to ensure you respect women more and generally be a better person.
That's it from me for now, see you on Sunday.
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